Not able to send mail using password recovery control

 Hi,
I'm using password recovery control to email my password to the email address stored in the system. But the control is unable to send email from my gmail account since SSL is enabled in gmail. So I tried setting up my own text file in custom format to send a message via SMTP. But I do not know how to retrieve the system generated password which gets automatically created when the user clicks the submit button. How do I get the value of this field and send via SMTP to my email?
 
Thanks

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