show selected date in calendar

Hi all,
I've got this terrible brain freeze today ;-)
I have an asp:Calendar (not ajax). When I set the selectedDate from codebehind to a date in another month, I'd want the new selected date to show (that is, show the calendar "page" with the new month. How do I do this?
calFromDate.SelectedDate = myDate 'works fine
calFromDate.ShowSelectedDate's Month 'pseudocode
 
The calendar resides in an updatepanel for speed purposes, but I don't think that has anything to do with anything...
 
Thanks a lot!
/Pettrer
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