post (send ) a widget (flash object) to friendster.com and wordpress.com from a asp.net site

  Hi,
  I want to post(send)  a flash object or we can say (Widget or Gadget) to friendster.com profile page and to wordpress.com blog on the button click of
  my asp.net site .please help me..
My Flash object (widget) which is to be sent to friendster and wordpress is below-
<object classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000"           
codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,0,0"
width="300"  height= "300"  id="flashmovie" >         
<param name="movie" value="http://203.197.202.163:80/rnd/SwfFiles/chess.swf"/>
<embed src="http://203.197.202.163:80/rnd/SwfFiles/chess.swf" name="flashmovie"
width="300"  height= "300"< ...