This is my loop to find a particular textbox in a gridview:
dim selectedvalue as string = "hello"
For i = 0 To GridView1.Rows.CountDim tb As TextBox = CType(GridView1.Rows(i).Cells(4).FindControl("textbox4"), TextBox) --- cells(4) is the 5th column in the gridview
tb.Text = selectedValue -- selec ...
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